INITIAL VISUALS:

Find a new way to communicate ( ease the gap ) with mum.
Express my feeling/emotion by dedicating my work to her.

1. SHHHH....MUM! JUST LISTEN!
(As she likes/enjoys listening to old emotional songs so much)

a) creating handy music remote control linking with music player (e.g CD player) in forms of
- shirt buttons
- badges









Press + Play music once she becomes mad at me!


b) Talk to Mum through music rhythm

Ask her to stay calm and listen once she gets angry and she will see how I feel and what I
wanna tell her











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2. MUSIC EVERYWHERE!















3. ANTI WRINKLE/ ANTI WHITE HAIR FORMULA!

= LOVE + FREEDOM + PATIENCE

Verbal Violence

A recent letter from Dad!!!

True!I have to admit "Verbal violence" is haunting me in some ways indeed. As mum may not know what she was scolding when I did something wrong to make her so angry. She always urged me to doubt myself whether I am really stupid/useless or not.

Kids: 20Apr10

It’s not easy to get in the religion for an artist, I am ok in CN, last week I hv had a talk with Ying in the phone, and find out that your mom still not change from her 躁狂症, and i said at mom’s age, personality change is not a good sign, cos side- effect could happen subsequently, but it’s a critical mass that people hard to stay with her n even have super patience, n it’s not practical, 、言语暴力(Verbal violence ) can also hurt people badly, at least break their self respect and self confidence, that guide the children by a narrow way to be a coward and yes-man, so my suggestion to you guys, treat it as ( Negative example反面教材 ) as if you can break it through, you will never been a coward neither a closed mind, and it ‘s very important that ate it up not suffer from it…把壞事转化為好事, of course once you stand on your own, no more pressure of financing, n can refuse to agree wrong n distort concept.

I’m sorry that I get not much to do about it, and can’t give you a perfect family , as a man-kind, you guys could finally have children and teach them with this experience as reference. That’s why people said壞事,好事互相转化…的; other-wise you can’t get a clear consciousness to define which is right and wrong and make the bad things good...

CM

c) Find a new way to communicate (ease the gap) with mum

1. MUSIC TREATMENT????

As my mum likes old emotional songs, I think music could be a key to open her heart by cooling/calming down her fire.

MUSIC CURES VIOLENCE?



relevant REF: Film- Orange Mechanics

The film was the completion of acclaimed director Stanley Kubrick, caused controversy at the time when it was released. The black humour and irony are marked characteristics of the film. The touch of realism is the most imaginative given by the slang used in the vocabulary of the texts. The main character and narrator of the story is Alex De Large, a young man whose only interests are: sex, violence and music (more specifically, Beethoven). Throughout his narrative, Alex account some of its acts of violence and disorder, committed with the aid of his companions. Alex is cynical and talk about everything with great irony. Some time later, still thirst for fun, Alex and his "drugues" (his companions as they are called in the film) invade a home in a place away from the urban area. Only to suffer more: his parents, still suffering greatly, not the host in their own home, to leave the house as it would in mind, Alex is with part of his past, he struck the old time ago, the man the leads to where are his companions and espancam it. Seeing the confusion, two police approach is Alex, and pasmem, are his companions in times of delinquency, and they want to take the inability him for the violence ... The suffering of Alex culminates when he jumps from the window of the room where they were ; falling ugly "... This film is able to make the viewer become a person reflective, critical and intelligent.


a) Music badges

b) Music buttons

c) Handy remote control (can be badge or button)

b) Express my deep feeling/emotion by dedicating a love work to her

Anti- wrinkle formula?

Anti- white hair formula?

a) Find a way to interpret the relationship between me and mum

1. Rejecting Puzzle Magnets
We are born to stay tgt mentally but instead rejecting each other

- Typo puzzles ?

2. Splitting Blood
Made with red liquid + oil

3. DNA error

問世間親情為何物?

WHAT DO U THINK U CAN BE ?

No offense.

U can be the furious headmaster.
U can be a rubber band tying tightly all over my body.
U can be a pair of handcuffs.
U are owning a robot.
U want me to be a robot. (following exactly what you think to live a life)

Dear Mum : ( when I am cool )

Mum, I am now a grown up girl.
I want freedom.
I want to think with my own desire.
I want to live my own life in my own way.
I know what is right and wrong though a bit clumsy as granted.
I would love to manage any big issue and experience any tiny failure hopefully lol.
I m not asking you not to love, but to care and love me in a right way, please.
Let me go.....
Let me enjoy my youth.....

xx
Ying

Dear Mum : ( when I m on fire )

"FUCK ME"
"FUCKING WANNA SUICIDE"
"U ARE DRIVING ME MAD"
"FUCKING WANNA LEAVE THIS HOME"
"I AINT A 12th YEAR OLD CHILD ANY FUCKING MORE!!!!!!"

- Please dont fucking accuse me of
wearing too much make up
using too much water while bathing
turning on the cell phone overnight (cuz it's not healthy for the battery!!!!)
being untidy when I didnt clean up the table just 5 mins after I finished the meal
- Dont force me to sleep earlier by knocking on my room door every 15 mins!
- Dont be overreacted when I wanna go overnight karaoke!
- Please please please don't give a shit about my friends...they don't mean anything to you...they didn't hurt you! They are just my friends.
- There are young people like me all over the world. I am not the exclusive one! No doubt, a youngster who sleep on time day and night, do every little thing following every line and rule is a fucking robot or freak!!!

"RAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!"

xx
Ying

Sorry...Mum :)

My year1 interactive design work.

In a complicated relationship?

We are not friends but teacher and student.

When I was a child -
She raised me up and taught me to be good.
I listened and followed without much thinking.

When I was a teenager -
She grounded and punished me like every traditional/strict mother does.
I argued with her everyday....being rebellious as every teenager does.

When I am a young adult 20+ -
She is overprotected and still trying to control every aspect of my life.
I began to stay calm and trying so hard to respect her though I cant stand her sometimes.

WHO ?

She brings me to this world.
She is strong and tough.
She works full time from Mon - Sat.
She used to live alone due to a complicated marriage and me and my brother's overseas study.
She is too stubborn in a way.
She has bad temper.
She needs love.